I realize it's probably intended as a neutral statement of observation or even as a compliment, but I'm still always a wee bit offended when anyone says, "Really? You're American? But you're so quiet."
I used to get that as well and was pretty baffled by it when travelling with other Europeans who were actually rather loud themselves. I think that maybe it stems more from where it is okay to be loud in the US as apposed to where it is okay to be loud in Europe.
Kjerste--Yeah, I get annoyed with anything that involves a negative stereotype like that. It makes me want to punch people in the neck.
KWB--But a back-handed compliment.
Yankee Girl--Exactly! Scottish people are not quiet and Australians are the rowdiest travelers I've ever met and the group of German teens at the Tower of London were far more loud and annoying than just about any group of teens EVER. So, you know . . .
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When I toured Europe (with a lot of teenagers), I could see why people thought Americans were loud and obnoxious--so much of my group was!
It's a sad stereotype. I'm glad that you break it. :-)
P.S. I gave you a blog award...again. But I just HAD to. (austenknowsbest.blogspot.com)
I get the same sort of reactions as a Utah Mormon. ("But you're so open-minded!")
Yes, it's a compliment. Say thank you.
KWB
I used to get that as well and was pretty baffled by it when travelling with other Europeans who were actually rather loud themselves. I think that maybe it stems more from where it is okay to be loud in the US as apposed to where it is okay to be loud in Europe.
Thanks for the award!
Kjerste--Yeah, I get annoyed with anything that involves a negative stereotype like that. It makes me want to punch people in the neck.
KWB--But a back-handed compliment.
Yankee Girl--Exactly! Scottish people are not quiet and Australians are the rowdiest travelers I've ever met and the group of German teens at the Tower of London were far more loud and annoying than just about any group of teens EVER. So, you know . . .
Perhaps if the American dollar improves this summer you will understand the stem of this stereotype when visiting the Maratimes.
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